Commencement: a beginning or start.
I love to break up my morning writing sessions with a good commencement speech.
There’s so much promise in a commencement speech, sending graduates off into the world with wisdom that hopefully inspires choices that lead to actions, that somehow equate to success and happiness in their future.
The fact of the matter is we don’t need to graduate from anything to indulge in a good ‘ol commencement. The dawn of each new day allows us to indulge in such on a daily basis if we choose.
With that knowledge comes great responsibility – it means that every day, upon rising, we set off on an adventure. Remember those choose your own adventure books? Every day we step into our own story, and choose our own adventure. Our personal story is our own choosing. It’s terrifying! Do I choose to wake up and reach for my phone, check my e-mails, etc. Or do I wake up and decide to slay a dragon on that particular day?
I’ve been consciously trying to partake in activities that make me uncomfortable. I went paddle boarding last week – paddled hard and got nowhere, real fast. My fiancé and I were not informed how bad the current was. But it was an adventure. It was something I’d never done before. And then I went skimboarding for the first time in ten years. I HATE being bad at things. It was rough. But it forced me to dive back into that childlike playfulness I often loose track of.
Now, in fairness, I was on somewhat of a vacation – which inevitably provides time to play and have adventures. BUT – creating space for a daily adventure, even as mundane as an early morning walk vs. the immediate jump to e-mails, creates space for us to choose our own destiny instead of blindly walking into a fate determined by habit vs. our own free will.
A lifetime is a series of commencements leading up to an ending that’s as climactic as you make it! Step into your own adventure book and write the page-turner worth reading.